With a pathway so open and available, why don't more people get on it to go where they want to go?
It is probably because of a fork in the road. People are going to go in one of two directions. Their wants or those of others. Many are so blinded by their own personal wants that they give very little thought to filling the needs of others.
Jill knows what she wants form her husband, but what he wants never fully gets through to her.
The foreman knows he wants those lug bolts tightened as the body frame comes through the assembly line, but what does the one doing the tightening want?
The parents know the way they want their children to grow up, but do they show as much concern for what the children want emotionally, that is?
The salesman has a strong desire to sell the stove but is almost afraid to ask about the prospect's wants, for fear the product won't fit.
Pete feels that Janes does not love him in the same way he wants to be loved. Mabe it's because Pepe has been blind ot her wants and needs.
The teacher wants the dull, sleepy eyed teen to be more attentive, but what does the gawky young stalk of humanity really want? Has anyone thought about that?
And so it goes. Everyone wants something from someone else and becomes frustrated when it is not forthcoming.
Do you know what happens many times? They start applying an upside down version of the rule. They try punishing people and that's just what people don't want, in an effort to get what they want.
The room gets chilly when Jane doesn't get waht she wants from Pete. The foreman yells at the lug bolt tightener. The parents scold, and spank and threaten when the children do not fit the mold. The salesman jabbers on desperately when it appears the prospect is only lukewarm. "Perhaps Jane will shape up if I make her jealous," Pete reasons. The teacher threatens, shames and disciplines, in a futile attempt to shake off the teens laethargy.
And that is the story of the human in a highly individualized society. Divorces, splits in families, high job turnover, heavy hearts, wasted cares, crumbled dreams, lonely lives all haunted by ineffective efforts to relate to others.
I mentioned this in my last article. Find out what people want. Then help them get it. That is the way to reverse most of those distressing situations.
It is just another way of describing the rule.Or at least the first part of it, that: To the degree you give others what they want. They in turn will give you what you want.
Author Resource:-
It’s a Digital Future why not utilize it? Rick Shoop with a-digital-future.com Internet Marketing Training. MLM lead system specialist. Basic Training in relationships in the real world applies to the internet as well.
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